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The power in Letting Go

Christabel Nem
3 min readAug 26, 2023

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Picture yourself stepping into a world where the process of unlearning becomes a guiding light, illuminating your way forward. This is the essence of embracing the power of letting go — a deliberate and heartfelt process of shedding beliefs and habits that no longer serve you. As humans, we evolve, and so should our mindsets. Researchers at Stanford University discovered that those who bravely unlearn old behaviors often find themselves embracing adaptability and nurturing their creativity (Smith et al., 2019).

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Steps you can take to begin your journey of freedom:

Step 1: Reflect on Your Path Pause and reflect. Take a mental inventory of your beliefs and habits. What served you in the past might not align with your present goals. Acknowledge these as a part of your journey, and embrace the opportunity to evolve.

Step 2: Seek External Perspective Engage with your network, friends, or mentors. Outside perspectives offer fresh insights that can challenge your existing views. A study in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology demonstrates that diverse social interactions stimulate cognitive flexibility (Williams et al., 2018).

Step 3: Uncover Patterns Detect patterns in your behaviors. Do you notice recurring reactions that hinder progress? Recognizing these habits enables you to work on altering them. According to…

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Christabel Nem
Christabel Nem

Written by Christabel Nem

Living to learn while learning to live. Skincare fanatic. Psychology lover. People lover. Entrepreneur.

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